…body retreats into survival mode and peddles hard just to keep some semblance of order and normality. Anything playful feels frivolous, or ludicrous, or inappropriate. But what if this is…
…and more aware that my differentness did not stop at my body. I was too intense, too sensitive, too emotional, too inquisitive. Too much. Inside and out. It was very…
…the key is in the movement. An intention is such a movement. We aim in a direction and we move towards it. But how do we stay on track? Is…
…this sitting is not helping: Matthew is in more trouble each day than he was the day before. I don’t understand this. In Zaire we believe that what a child…
…affecting the relationship; the space between parent and child. This is my true place of influence in my child’s life. That is where my work is and always has been….
…child erupts in this troubling behaviour? and What can I learn from this incident that would change my interaction with this child? Or, as I have already noted, What is…
…hearts so invested we risk being frustrated and hurt when it doesn’t come to pass; this is what life is like, and we were meant to survive this too. In…
Bullies thrive on exploiting the vulnerability in others. Instead of protecting those who are in a weaker position they take advantage of them. They revel in having the upper hand….
…what alarms us most is separation from the people and things we are attached to. Different kids deal with alarm in different ways. In some, the alarm system is hair-trigger,…
…care taking. In this case, these powerful alpha instincts no longer serve their intended purpose – to take care of others. This is more likely to happen when the alpha…