…I have to walk the maze in every given moment. This means I have to be alive, sensitive, conscious – no routine, no solid certainty if something will work, always…

…board. Ask also your friends and relatives to play a match-making role instead of rumbling about the absent parent. Of course it is important for us that our support crew…

…who are not sanctioned by their primary attachments. This helps to keep them safe and stay within their parent’s realm of influence. When we lived in more intact villages, children…

…ways this is lived out loud? 1) Collect our Children -Collecting a child is an attachment ritual used to activate relational instincts to depend on, look up to, trust, and…

…problems and also requires a development. In other words, to truly grow up we need to leave the felt safety of pure certainty and live in the middle of our…

…separation anxiety in children at 5 or 6 and expect them to behave like small adults. To quote Gordon Neufeld, “Children should live unconsciously”. It is their right. As a…

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