There are two parts to this answer. Firstly, we wish we had the resources to help; however, the limited resources we have are primarily devoted to providing individual follow-up support to the parents who take our courses.
On the other hand, Dr. Neufeld’s experience and belief is that the best therapy one could ever engage in is to strive to become the parent one’s child needs. So he would probably recommend that you focus on becoming the answer to your child, and let your own growth be the serendipitous result.