Keeping Children Safe in a Wounding World

Sessions: 4 

Lecture: 4h 55m

Certificate: 8+ hrs

100 CAD

Evidence indicates that our children's world is becoming more wounding, taking a toll on their emotional health and well-being. Safety has become a major concern, yet impossible to deliver in today's society despite our best efforts. Neufeld reveals a hopeful way through to providing safety without necessarily having to alter a child's world.

As is the case with all our courses, this course features lectures by Dr. Neufeld, carefully curated support for enriched study, study aides, the opportunity to ask questions of trained faculty or course facilitators, a year's access to the campus to enable study at one's own pace, and a certificate of attendance upon completion. For more information, consult the 'about our courses' page.

COURSE SUMMARY 

There is certainly a growing consciousness within our society that emotional well-being is at the heart of the matter with regards to the realization of potential for our students, whether this be for learning, maturation, fulfillment or ultimately for healthy integration into society. At the same time there is growing evidence that our children are in trouble emotionally with stress levels measuring even higher than in previous times of war or instability. Anxiety and aggression are increasing and suicidal ideation continues to climb. Somehow their world has become a more wounding place with no obvious circumstances to blame. There is a growing commitment to keeping our students and children safe but little understanding of how to do this. Battling societal symptoms such as bullying and discrimination is not only costly but ultimately futile as well. Trying to get children and youth to be more sensitive to each other, although well-meaning, has not delivered the hoped for results. With less and less control over the circumstances of their lives, how can we possibly keep our children and students safe, especially in an increasingly wounding world? What are the factors that put children at risk and how can we recognize when they are in trouble? In this course, Dr. Neufeld puts the puzzle pieces together to reveal the nature of today's increased emotional vulnerability among children. With new understandings of emotion, attachment, and the impact of wounding, he makes sense of what is happening and opens doors for change. The solutions are surprisingly accessible as well as achievable, once understood.

SUITABILITY/APPLICABILITY

Safety is everyone's concern these days, so knowing how to provide this for those who depend upon us, should be our utmost priority. The material is especially apropos for educators and parents, although applicable to everyone.

SAMPLE TOPICS

  • how to preserve or restore a child's emotional health and well-being
  • the signs and symptoms of our children being more wounded
  • how the impact of wounding is largely eclipsed in today's society
  • why the early warning signs of being hurt are usually missed
  • the insidious impact of escalating peer orientation
  • why social media is such a wounding place
  • how the wounded can develop into wounders
  • why tilting against the wounding world is largely futile
  • how aggression and anxiety are rooted in stuck reactions to wounding
  • why today's children are more emotionally vulnerable
  • how we can protect the hearts of our children without controlling their circumstances

COURSE OUTLINE

The course is structured into 4 sessions with each session including approximately 1 ¼ hours of instructional video from Dr. Neufeld. 

  • Session 1 – How the power to wound is a function of attachment
    We can't address a problem we don't understand. We begin the course with clarifying the nature and meaning of wounding, viewing this dynamic through the lens of attachment. The power to shield our children is a function of their attachments to us. 
  • Session 2 – How the pain of a wound is a function of feeling
    The animating brain's ability to inhibit feeling leads to the great human paradox that the deeper the cut, the less likely to be felt. The insidious cost of emotional armour is outlined, along with implications for healing and caring. The most common mistake is to interpret a loss of feeling as getting better.
  • Session 3 – A 'Shielding & Sanctuary' approach to keeping children safe
    From an understanding of the meaning and nature of human suffering, a way through is presented that has profound implications for raising children.
  • Session 4 – A comparison of approaches and their effectiveness to keeping children safe
    The attachment-based developmental approach to safety is compared with the prevailing approaches in both parenting and education that do little more than tilt at the wounding world. Understanding how and why an approach works is key to its implementation. 

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