…we might state matter of factly, “This situation isn’t going well, let’s take a break and come back later to watch a show and have a snack together.” This is…
…we can make this a good story. My challenge will be to tell this story in 18 minutes. Editor’s Note: Dr. Neufeld will present his 18-minute untold story of frustration…
…Dr. Neufeld spoke about coming alongside, he didn’t mean this. But he did. And I needed to allow this human who I love beyond reason to stretch my heart past…
…that I’m big enough, mom enough, and my children’s answer. This confidence comes from within. It’s intuition-based – not expert-based, not technique-based, not learning-based, and definitely not media-based. During his…
…vulnerability in order to establish dominance. This is the signature dynamic of the bully. Tell-tale signs of this flight from vulnerability is the failure to talk in vulnerable ways about…
…good they will move to seek emotional support and influence about how life works from… other teens. The phenomena of ‘peer orientation,’ as described by Dr. Gordon Neufeld in his…
…the dignity of the parent and child involved. What is clear is we cannot ‘will’ emotional defenses to rise or fall. This is not for us to say. However,…
…we did our best to unfold it within grounded structures and routines. Was there testing and negotiation? Sure. Was there whining, crying and upset? Absolutely. But this is par for…
…well as share their secrets with. The answer to what our children need most of all is love. But the key issue here is that it is actually not how…
…Parents, children, grandparents, aunts, uncles and cousins come together to remember and tell the Passover story in great detail. The story is recounted as if all present had actually participated…